How the Sausage is Made: What Bar Prep Is Like (A Message for Friends and Family)
Happy Sausage Day! October 1 is a day to celebrate one of the most popular (and delicious) foods in the world.
But today, I want to use this occasion to talk about something that isn’t as widely celebrated. The phrase "how the sausage is made" means "the practical and often unpleasant or messy aspects of a process that are usually not made public."
Much like making sausage, the process of preparing for the bar exam is a behind-the-scenes grind that most people don’t see—and frankly, most people don’t want to. While everyone loves the taste of a well-made sausage, few want to know what really goes into making it.
For those of you with a loved one studying for the bar, you’ve probably only seen the final product: the late nights, stress, and exhaustion. But what you don’t see is what goes into the "making" of a bar taker—the long, often grueling, process of grinding through lecture videos, practice exams, and mountains of outlines and other study materials. Today, in honor of Sausage Day, let’s pull back the curtain and acknowledge the hard work that goes unseen.
The Grind: What Bar Prep Really Looks Like
Imagine the process of making sausage. There’s a lot that goes into it: selecting the right ingredients, grinding them down, mixing in the spices, and finally, packaging it all together. It’s not exactly glamorous—there’s a lot of mess and effort involved before the final product comes out.
Bar preparation is no different.
A typical day of bar prep is spent grinding through multiple-choice questions, rereading outlines, reviewing lecture videos, and memorizing countless rules of law. There’s a constant need to refine and rework your knowledge, much like a sausage maker adjusts the seasoning until it’s just right. It’s repetitive and often overwhelming. For example, you might spend hours dissecting practice essays, only to realize later that you missed key issues. It can feel like an endless loop of learning, reviewing, and reworking.
What people don’t see are the sacrifices: the hours spent studying while life carries on around you, the missed family dinners, and the lack of social time. This is the messy part—the part that’s hidden from view.
The Mess Behind the Scenes
Just like sausage-making, bar prep involves a lot of ingredients that you don’t always want to think about. There are moments of frustration, like when a rule you thought you knew slips your mind or when a practice exam reveals gaps in your understanding. There are also countless hours of repetition, drilling practice questions, and writing essays.
Take for example the study sessions where a single essay takes hours to analyze and break down. Or the practice test where the answers seem to contradict everything you thought you knew. These are the moments when the "sausage" is being made—where the hard work happens out of sight, slowly but surely turning a bar applicant into someone capable of passing the exam.
Why the Process Matters
Just like a well-made sausage, the bar exam isn’t about one flashy moment of success; it’s about all the small, often unseen steps that lead up to it. Every late night of studying, every practice test, and every frustrating moment of self-doubt is building something larger—something that will be satisfying in the end.
The grind matters. It’s what turns a bar applicant into a license attorney. Much like how the right mix of ingredients makes a good sausage, the consistent, sometimes tedious effort in bar prep is what creates success. Without that grind, without putting in the time, the result won’t be as satisfying—or successful.
How Friends and Family Can Help
For friends and family, it can be difficult to understand what bar takers are going through. You see the stress, the frustration, and the exhaustion, but you don’t see the full process. Just like with sausage, you enjoy the final product but may not know what’s happening behind the scenes.
Here are some ways you can help support your loved one through the bar prep "sausage-making" process:
✅ Be Patient: Bar prep is a long, demanding process. If your loved one isn’t as present or engaged as usual, know that it’s not personal—it’s just part of the grind.
✅ Offer Encouragement: A quick text message or a word of encouragement can go a long way. Remind them that all the hard work they’re putting in is building towards success.
✅ Respect Their Space: Preparing for the bar requires intense focus. Sometimes the best way to help is by giving them the space to study without distractions.
✅ Celebrate the Small Wins: Finishing a tough study session or sticking to their schedule are victories worth recognizing. Small moments of encouragement add up, just like the little steps in making sausage lead to a great result.
This Sausage Day, while you might be enjoying your favorite sausage at breakfast or a BBQ, take a moment to appreciate the "sausage-making" process of bar prep. Because just like with sausage, the end result may be satisfying, but the process? It’s tough. And those who go through it deserve all the support they can get.
